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I come to the board to read Stevie happenings, pictures, stories about a band---The gossip, chatter and reflections on an earlier time in my life -that I associate a lot of what I have actually become- the person that I am, with this band of people that I have listend to and followed for 30+ years... When here, I am saddened to find such sadness, name calling, dispair and sometimes outright desperation, I find people who are hurting and need some support and a place to feel safe posting their inner turmoils and heartaches..after all, No one REALLY knows you and they can't judge you and it allows some healing to be able to write something down and then send it away... When here, I am amazed at the silly chatter, games that are played and the "family" that so many members have become-Curtis, Amber and Lux and Dissention ans Pattie and Claudia and Shel , and Hillary and Chris and...and so many people...that I really know, about them---- only what they want me, or anyone else posting/reading -to know. Some days they are happy and somedays they are not. But they always have something to say ,maybe just to each other or to the whole board-- We have (in what I have observed,) a very large population of people in many countries, in many age groups, different social classes, different interests, and mostly....with many thoughts that they want to share and with so very man ,many, different priorities!! That said- Please know there are people that are concerened and worried about you and your relationship with your Dad-but it is a heavy subject, not many people know how to deal and accept the healty realatives in their lives...forget about when it becomes serious and very real, there is nothing more akward than death. Please don't think that I am belittling your trauma, because I am not- I just want to help you to understand the People in general-don't know what to say or how to express themselves when someone is going through the difficult path you are on. So, instead thay talk about foolish, silly non-consequencial "stuff" and ignore the reality of something REAL and very, very scarry. like death. I don't think it means that you are meaningless at all Actually, you are probably the most meaningful person on this board today. Unfortunately, I don't think a lot of thye people here are capable of the compasion that is needed in your life right now Please accept my compasion, prayers, wishes and hopes that you will be able to get through this difficult time in your life, with the strength that you are seaching for...you have my sympathy and my sincere wishes for lighter days ahead ~~dreams, eclipse~~
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![]() I know it's pathetic, lame, and cliche, but in regards to how last night's innocent snarking turned nasty, I really just wish we could all get along. I care very much about Amber, Josh, and Lux (in no particular order; that's why I did alphabetical so I wouldn't have to pick an order) and I hate how this has happened. And I was happy that you, Darrelle, started posting more often because I think you're really funny and I am always glad to see different people contributing. I'm really sorry that you have negative feelings about the board; I hope someone (me or whoever) could change your mind somehow.
And this is just my two cents and my perception of what's going on, but Lux, I think that what Josh said to you was unnecessarily mean so I was glad to see that he apologized. I think he made that comment in response to yours about him because he thought you were being serious when I believe you were actually joking. Joking or not, I think your comment still came off as mean. To me, it read like you were trying to make a joke out of it but it still represented the way you really feel about him and it was also (sorry to be repetitive) mean. I think that is the point Amber is trying to make, but you don't want to consider what she's saying at all. |
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![]() Gawd- I'm not even going to address the majority of the pages I've just sloshed through.
The one post that really caught my attention was La Gringa's. I did read your post. Honestly? It was really heavy and simply I didn't know what to say. I had every intention (believe it or not) of coming back later and addressing it in some way. Still - I have no clue what to say - so a simple, "I'm really sorry for what you're going through right now" Will have to suffice. I, myself, haven't seen my father in oh some 15+ years - I don't know if he's alive or dead or what ![]() Thanks though for your very heartfelt post about feeling ignored etc - you're right - it does seem strange that a post of such magnitude was widely ignored while my date rantings were addressed - but like someone said before - perhaps more people could relate to that? I don't know. |
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I'm sorry I did not reply to your post before. I hope that you feel better soon. Do something nice for yourself today. Please know that you are in our hearts and thoughts whether or not we post. ![]()
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This was a really thoughtful and insightful post and I think you are right on the money here. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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Beyond that, I wish I was better able to articulate to you how deeply my heart goes out to you. This is one of those situations where mere words don't seem adequate. But you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope you're able to find solace during this extremely difficult time. From the way you express yourself in your posts and from the pics you've posted, it's clear that you're a beautiful person inside and out. I'm sorry I hadn't communicated that to you before. It takes me a while to really start conversing with people in a major way. It's not snobbery, but a remnant of my inherent shyness. I often take my time getting to know someone. We can be a pretty overwhelming group of people here, and some of us are definitely a little too quick with the sarcasm and aggressive debates... which I know can intimidate people who are new to the fold. But I think overall we're all good people. I think most Ledgies are above "cliques," and immature behaviour such as that, and aren't meaning to exclude anyone at all as we talk to the people we've come to know over the years. I hope you'll stay with us, and continue adding your thoughts and insights. ![]()
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![]() Thanks everybody for what you said. In a big way, I almost wish I hadn't posted that last night. I was really, really tired and feeling emotional and then the whole subject of cliques came up and others feeling left out, soo one thing led to another and I found myself giving my .02. To the person who said they come here for lighthearted stuff, I do too. However, I've seen others that weren't so lighthearted and needed something. I know most hate this song, but "sometimes it's a bitch, sometimes it's a breeze." I still think if someone who was more *popular* had posted what I did, there would be 100 pages following and if anyone ignored it, they would be the exception. But, I droned on about that last night so I won't do it today. When I started this thread initially, this was how I introduced it:
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Ok, so I still hope everybody feels free to *dump* in this thread. That's what it's for! Thanks again for your thoughts.
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![]() I met a cutie last night and he had the most hilarious story. He's a cop and he had to testify in a case against a man who molested his step-daughter. I know, that part isn't light. He was the officer who arrived at the home of this man and arrested him. His wife caught him in the act and called the police but he didn't know this. She took her daugher and left before the police arrived.
So Jake* has to "pat-frisk" this guy to make sure he doesn't have any weapons. He frisks him and notices the man has a "large, erect penis". His words, and he uses these in his report. It gets better. So at trial he's giving his testimony and the defense lawyer is cross-examining and asks "What did you discover when you pat-frisked so and so?" Jake, "Well, I don't know how to say this." Lawyer, "Just say it." Jake, "I discovered a large, erect penis." Lawyer, "Are you a doctor?" Jake, "No." Lawyer, "Do you have any experience with a large, erect penis?" Jake, "I have 28 years of hands-on experience with a large, erect penis." ![]() ![]() ![]() *Name changed to protect the innocent. ![]()
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