#331
|
||||
|
||||
Quote:
|
#332
|
||||
|
||||
Quote:
|
#333
|
|||
|
|||
I actually don't think it's okay for anyone (even black folks) to use the "n-word" why why why would they adopt this term and use it? I agree with Cos in what he says about the use of the "n-word". I don't go around to my hispanic friends, "Hey Wetback!" or "Heya spic!" it's degrading...
In the same token I also don't see at as "okay" that people use the word fag....as Diamondsnake's original post stated...I've always percieved it as it's okay for people who are gay to use these terms (a similar situation to who can use the "n-word") like Like Dyke used to be a bad thing - now it seems to be accepted.... Umm...yeah..that's my take |
#334
|
||||
|
||||
Quote:
I'm not gay (though I have read with interest a good bit of this thread), so I can't really comment on "fag" and "dyke". All I can say is one of my best friends (I've known her since we were 3, grew up across the street from each other, and we went to see the Mac together last May ) is gay, and that's the only word I ever hear her use. Once when she was describing a girlfriend to me, she used the word Lipstick Lesbian. But that's it. She only uses "gay." Maybe she's different when she's around only gay friends, but I'd like to think she's not. Carol |
#335
|
||||
|
||||
I don't use any of those words ever. I think they are all bad words, bad in the sense that they serve no purpose other that to demean someone else. They're just too much trouble.
My sister was dating a black guy (Polo) and her best friend is a gay man who is in a committed relatinship with "Shane". Well one day Shane was pissed that Polo was being a jerk and consequently called him a "nigger". Shane felt he was justified because Polo had called him "faggot" numerous times before. Now my sister would say all the "faggot" comments were good-natured and that Polo didn't mean anything by it, but Shane wasn't convinced. Needless to say it's all a big mess now. Now I think Polo has problems with gays and I think Shane has problems with blacks, but if no one ever used either of those words, whether they thought they were being funny or otherwise, it wouldn't be the mess it is. You just never know what the other guy is thinking...
__________________
Sue Take on the situation but not the torment |
#336
|
||||
|
||||
Quote:
AMber
__________________
"Do not be afraid! I am Esteban de la Sexface!" "In order to live free and happily, you must sacrifice boredom. It is not always an easy sacrifice" Whehyll I can do EHYT!! Wehyll I can make it WAHN moh thihme! (wheyllit'sA reayllongwaytogooo! To say goodbhiiy!) - |
#337
|
||||
|
||||
Quote:
"You're calling me a faggot- so what? I'm gay and I don't care if you don't like it. By using that term you've just made yourself look like an idiot." |
#338
|
||||
|
||||
Quote:
__________________
|
10-16-2004, 10:19 AM |
strandinthewind |
This message has been deleted by strandinthewind.
|
#339
|
||||
|
||||
Quote:
Well, it was a day that ended in "ay" |
#340
|
||||
|
||||
OT - wait, no, ON topic, lol.
Just bought my friend a magnet that says "if being gay is a disease, can I call in queer?" Paula |
#341
|
||||
|
||||
Quote:
I love that! For the past several years, I've sworn that I'm going to buy my friend Anne (yes, she would be considered my "fruit fly") the shirt that says, "I'm not gay, but my boyfriend is." Of course, it's intended to be worn by a man, but it fits our situation perfectly, since everyone always assumes we're a couple. We're told that we're so cute together, and that our flirting is infectuous!
__________________
"Although the arrogance of fame lingers like a thick cloud around the famous, the sun always seems to shine for Stevie." -- Richard Dashut, 2014 |
|
|
Billy Burnette 45 rpm "Oh, Susan" Columbia Records #11-11432
$5.25
Billy Burnette - Billy Burnette [New CD] Rmst, Reissue
$15.38
[ROCK/POP]~EXC LP~BILLY BURNETTE~Self Titled~[Original 1980~CBS~Issue]
$8.99
Billy Burnette Try Me LP 1985 Curb Records Promo Vinyl
$6.90
Billy Burnette - Try Me 1985 USA Orig. Vinyl LP E/E
$3.99